I have been waiting since Oct.2008 to get back into court for modification of alimony and child support.
I have been found disabled by a Federal judge since June of 2008 and yet I was told by a magistrate in court that I quit my second job at that time on purpose ,despite all the medical proof I presented at the hearing.
I was forced to pay alimony and child support at a higher rate and made to pay arrears. All of this and with all the medical proof my attorney and I presented, it all fell on deft ears. I have lost my drivers license ,vehicle registration, passport-hold and they said they would turn in my arrears on alimony and any child support arrears to the credit reporting agencies.
Not only did I get screwed, blued and tattooed but they took 1/2 of my 401k and are trying to suck the rest of me dry.
Isn't there any justice in this world, all I ever wanted was a divorce and be rid of a blood sucking woman, non-caring,non-loving Bitch. All I ever did was work two and sometimes three jobs to make life a lot easier for my children and my former wife, then when you are tired and fed up with being treated like a piece of the furniture with less compassion and love, who you think should be grateful for all the things that have been provided for her well being and the children not having to want for anything.
I do not understand, she has turned my daughter against me from what was a loving relationship since birth to a once in awhile phone call with little so say,not even a card on my birthday. I am hurting and sad beyond words could ever say, and the ex stills wants more! It is no wonder why so many people snap! I can see it and I can understand it now.
The courts have allowed this to happen and this should be a eye opening to all, even those planning to get married!! The state makes it so very easy to get married without ever preventing the pitfalls that can go along with marriage. Why else would they ever want to take the bread and butter off of their table? Is that what we as a nation have come too, if this is the case we are all it a bit of trouble, we are allowing this to occur.
There has to be reform, other wise they transform us into whatever they want and will continue to do so.You know , you can knock me down all you want, but I will always get back up and in your face.
Remember this saying, If you don't stand for something, you"ll fall for anything.