Victime #161: A Woman's Point of View

Guys I am right there with you. I know I'm a woman but I am absolutely against alimony in this day and age. It's barbaric and there is no reason for it.

I myself am a divorced mother of 2 kids. I get no childsupport (my choice) and no alimony . Matter of fact I was origanilly ordered to pay childsupport and alimony because I educated myself and made more money. So I kinda understand what it is to get screwed.

On the other hand, I am remarried to a wonderful man who is in the same boat as all of you. He pays his ex close to $2000.00 a month to sit on her ass and do nothing. They were married 9 years and he has permanent alimony.

We have a 2 year old together that he barely sees because he has to work an offshore job inorder to pay his alimony and help out with our family that we have created.

You're right it isnt fair. It needs to stop. There is no reason for it.

And as a woman I can say, for all the lasy ass women out there who need to get off their ass and get a job,  Piss off and go back to work. There is plenty of help out there for education, daycare and such because I have used it.

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Victim #160: Screwed, Blued and Tattooed

I have been waiting since Oct.2008 to get back into court for modification of alimony and child support.

I have been found disabled  by a Federal judge since June of 2008 and yet I was told by a magistrate in court that I quit my second job at that time on purpose ,despite all the medical proof  I presented at the hearing.

I was forced to pay alimony and child support at a higher rate and made to pay arrears. All of this and with all the medical proof my attorney and I presented, it all fell on deft ears. I have lost my drivers license ,vehicle registration, passport-hold  and they said they would turn in my arrears on alimony and any child support  arrears to the credit reporting agencies.

Not only did I get screwed, blued and tattooed but they took 1/2 of my 401k and are trying to suck the rest of me dry.

Isn't there any justice in this world, all I ever wanted was a divorce and be rid of a blood sucking woman, non-caring,non-loving Bitch. All I ever did was work two and sometimes three jobs to make life a lot easier for my children and my former wife, then when you are tired and fed up with being treated like a piece of the furniture with less compassion and love, who you think should be grateful for all the things that have been provided for her well being and the children not having to want for anything.

I do not understand, she has turned my daughter against me from what was a loving relationship since birth to a once in awhile phone call with little so say,not even a card on my birthday. I am hurting and sad beyond words could ever say, and the ex stills wants more! It is no wonder why so many people snap! I can see it and I can understand it now.

The courts have allowed this to happen and this should be a eye opening to all, even those planning to get married!! The state makes it so very easy to get married without ever preventing the pitfalls that can go along with marriage. Why else would they ever want to take the bread and butter off of their table? Is that what we as a nation have come too, if this is the case we are all it a bit of trouble, we are allowing this to occur.

There has to be reform, other wise they transform us into whatever they want and will continue to do so.You know , you can knock me down all you want, but I will always get back up and in your face.

Remember this saying, If you don't stand  for something, you"ll fall for anything.

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